Love Advice: A Man Always Does What A Woman Feels
Women have a strange tendency to blame themselves for the deterioration and, especially, for the breakup of a relationship. “Oh, maybe there’s something wrong with me if he looked at that Katya-bitch.”
Men don’t have such a craving for self-flagellation, but women always mercilessly torture themselves.
Apparently, this guilt is not without reason, and there is a reason for it after all…
The reason is that deep down, every woman knows about her influence, power, and strength to create any reality. Ancient knowledge says that a woman is responsible for the subtle, not yet created world, existing for now in the imagination, and a man’s task at the level of actions is to realize women’s dreams.
A man always does what a woman feels, no matter if she feels something good or something terrible.
In this sense, a woman is always a leader. As Confucius said, “The leader is the one who is behind,” meaning that the one who plans a battle or an event does not necessarily have to be the executor of the plan and die on the front lines from a stray bullet.
The general sits at headquarters, and the private carries out orders. And either he dies or brings the general trophies.
A woman’s orders to a man are given not by voice, not even by thought, but by feelings and emotions, which she herself is often afraid of:
“God, if I lose him, I won’t be able to bear such pain! I’d rather get rid of him now. It will hurt for a while, then stop, but it won’t hurt so much when I get used to it and let him into my heart.”
Such a woman displaces the pain of impending loss and creates vibrations for the realization of her intention, which her mind does not even suspect.
And the man can only obey her order to leave. He does not understand why it becomes difficult to be around her, and, feeling discomfort, he begins to think more and more about where to find an outlet.
So the woman herself pushes the man to escape.
And she feels guilty because she is aware, in the back of her mind, of her involvement in this turn of events.
A woman who wants to get out of the guilt of creating a failed relationship must realize her power of influence on the events happening around her.
She is not weak and independent of the bad deeds of a man; she is a goddess who dreams his actions, intends them, and gives them the initial impulse.
The purpose of my post is in no way to accuse a woman of all sins but to open her to the understanding that enormous power and strength were given to her by the Creator.
And, of course, you have heard the phrase many times: “What a woman wants, God wants.” Just understand these words more capaciously and clearly. Recognize your power of influence not only on your life but also on the life of your man. After all, he is only an executor, a leader—you!!!
And then there will be no guilt, self-flagellation, or condemnation of the actions of others who only fulfill your will. There will be a clear agreement with yourself—creating a conscious space.