Love Advice: 10 Secrets of a Woman Whom Men Don’t Leave
Secrets of a wise woman, from whom men do not leave and build strong family relationships. Yes, it is not very easy—for some it is even impossible. But, as it seems to me, it is effective.
What kind of women do men leave? There is no clear answer, and it often sounds prosaic: “Any!” However, they leave—hysterical, flighty, refusing intimacy, and not caring for their appearance… So, maybe the problem is not in women’s qualities at all, but in something else?
Here are some secrets of a woman who men don’t leave:
A man does not define life, serve as the center of the world, or set the boundaries of dreams. The world is much wider and more interesting than the simple presence of a man in a woman’s life. That is why you should not hang on him, you should not serve him, you should not hang around him, you should not depend on him—it is enough to just be near him and enjoy intimacy.
- Every woman should at least theoretically have the opportunity to leave her man. She should be financially independent, professionally successful, and self-sufficient personally. It is very scary to lose such a woman—unlike a burden that you will have to carry on your back for the rest of your life.
- A woman is always the guardian of the hearth. And nothing else. She may not do cross-stitching, but she bakes mind-blowing pies. She may not bake pies, but at least she fries the most delicious cutlets in the world. A man will never leave a house where he is well fed and where his shirt is always ironed.
A man should not give a woman all the money he earns. For no reason, under no pretext. And another thing: a woman who men do not leave will never search her pockets. Even if she knows for sure that in the right one there is a bank card and in the left one a business card of a photo model.
- A woman is not only a lover, a housewife, and the mother of her children. She is also a friend. Men have a hard time with spiritual loneliness; they definitely need to share plans, discuss everyday life, advise, and consult. At least on small things.
- A woman who doesn’t leave never irritates her partner. She doesn’t make scandals, doesn’t torment him with suspicions, doesn’t take out her bad mood on others, and doesn’t nag or manipulate with sex. She always talks and negotiates. And if she can’t negotiate, she just leaves.
- She always strives for perfection. She tries to look good. She fights her bad habits. She happily spends money on herself—and therefore on his image in the eyes of other men.
- A woman who does not leave treats her partner’s hobbies with respect and poorly concealed reverence. And she certainly has her own.
- A woman should be weak, but she has no right to be stupid.
