6 things you should never do for a man. He will stop respecting you for this… It is not forbidden to love or to sacrifice yourself for your beloved—in strictly exceptional situations! We tell you about what you should never and under no circumstances do for a man if you plan to stay with him for a long time and be infinitely happy.
Help financially
Even if your faithful has a hole instead of a wallet, he was fired from his job, and he allegedly can’t find a new one, Remember: you can always find a job, and if a man dreams not only of self-realization but also of feeding his family, he can, in the end, work as a loader before winning world fame. The trouble is that if you get into the habit of giving your beloved large sums, sooner or later it will end in tragedy—you will have to find first a second, then a third job, and believe me, there will be no more love in your life from this.
Give expensive gifts
Remember O. Henry’s story “The Gift of the Magi”, where the main character sold her hair to buy her husband a watch chain, and the husband, in turn, sold that same watch, wanting to give his wife a set of combs? Of course, no one is forcing you to cut your hair, but gifts should still be of equal value.
There is no point in presenting your beloved with a python skin briefcase or, even better, buying him a car if he presents you with another food processor.
Firstly, trying to win a man over with money will most likely not lead to success, unless of course he is a real man—on the contrary, with expensive gifts you can only push him away, especially if he cannot afford such luxury. Secondly, if you come across an unscrupulous representative of the stronger sex, love can turn into exploitation.
Feel sorry for him
For a long time, an ironic text about crying men was circulating on the Internet. Like, if your man is crying, pat him on the shoulder, and if he continues to shed tears after that, buy your chosen one a diaper.
Oddly enough, in reality, these tips really work. Not on such a scale, of course. The problem is that, unlike our half of humanity, a man does not feel love for pity towards him.
That is, to put it simply, he will complain about life to you and also whine, moan, and groan in front of you, but he will go out and, what is typical, get married with others.
Our problem is that we always imagine that complaining is a sign of a deep relationship because you are pulling him, unhappy and lonely, out of the abyss of despair. Remember the infamous Little Mermaid—she saved the Prince, but he married another!
Saying the phrase “I told you so.”
Even if you are right a hundred times. Even if you are right a million times, and you warned him, cautioned him and told him how he should have, and he dared to disobey you. There is nothing more provocative than your phrase, “I told you so.”
Firstly, you turned out to be smarter than him; secondly, you pointed it out to him. Very tactless! Rest assured, now your loved one will probably be offended; moreover, he will most likely remind you of his unfortunate mistake in the near future.
Give up personal life and career
A housewife decked out like a Christmas tree with balls, towels, baby clothes, and all sorts of household problems is, of course, good, but, unfortunately, the more we devote our lives to our men, children, and household chores, the faster our beloved loses interest in us. Sooner or later, he will want, firstly, to be alone, and secondly, to look at a beautiful woman.
And rest assured, in most cases, if you are unable to throw off your shabby robe and apron without thinking, he will find himself another object of admiration. By the way, this does not mean that your faithful will rush headlong to look for a mistress. No, he will simply admire someone else… someone else.
The same applies to your personal time and intimate space. If you got married, it does not mean that you have to abandon friends, work and other things that are pleasant for you.
On the contrary, the more diverse and full your life outside the family is, the more your other half will be drawn to you. Again, do not forget—you need to know the measure in everything.
Change your appearance for him
Yes, of course, we women are passionate about change. If today we liked being a brunette, it is quite possible that tomorrow we will decide to dye our hair blonde, red, and even add a few blue or pink strands; all this is within the norm.
If your beloved insists on a radical change of image, it’s time to think about it. Cut or grow your hair to please a man? Just because he wanted it that way? It’s not worth it, especially if you are one of those lucky women who manage not only to earn money and cook breakfasts and dinners but also take care of themselves.
After all, if your chosen one prefers skinny unisex girls and you look much more like a Kustodiev young lady, why not advise the man to find his own ideal rather than trying to fit you into incredible parameters?
In any case, your man should accept you as you are (within reason, of course); otherwise, he is simply not your man—alas, there are many more of those on our path in life than we would like.
