Why Men Go Back To Their Exes: 13 True Reasons
Why Men Go Back To Their Exes. 13 True Reasons. Exes always come back, just like herpes. Most men will try to get back with their girlfriend after a breakup, even if it doesn’t happen right away. And, frankly, the reasons why they do it are not the most noble.
1. Good afternoon.
Why do men go back to their exes? Most guys don’t want to miss out on good sex, and if the relationship doesn’t work out, they’ll try to save at least the sex. Then they start harping on: “I miss you, but I’m not ready for anything more.” Almost unmistakably, he doesn’t miss you; he misses sex with you. Which is flattering, of course, but to no avail.
2. He became less attractive and lost his arrogance.
Maybe he’s put on weight or gone bald. Maybe he’s lost a lot of the friends who used to boost his ego and a lot of potential lovers who’ve found better matches.
And you, on the contrary, have become prettier and have acquired a bunch of admirers. And then many men will want to return you , to return some attention to themselves.
3. He thought you were a loser, but now you’re a success.
He dumped you because he thought you weren’t worth his time. Maybe he was even embarrassed for you in front of others. And now he’s noticed that you’ve achieved success, remembered how much you loved him, and decided that things weren’t so bad.
4. You were his backup option, and his new girlfriend dumped him
The most popular reason for cheaters. They are torn between several options, but in the end they are left with nothing. They come with the words, “I was going through a difficult period” or “I did not appreciate what I had.” Don’t fall for it.
5. You earn well, and he is in crisis.
He could have left you because you didn’t earn as much as he wanted. But after the breakup, he himself lost his job, and now your earnings don’t seem so small compared to his shortage of money. A typical hunter for a wallet, and a woman’s wallet at that.
6. He wants to control you
If he comes back just when you started to forget him, then he just doesn’t want to let you out of his control. He doesn’t give you anything more but actively prevents you from living your life. This is not love.
7. He doesn’t want to start all over again, but he realized it too late.
Men have a very hard time dating new girls. At first, they think that the “grass is greener” on the other side, but in fact, after a breakup, he realizes how much energy was spent on that relationship, and he does not want to spend so much energy on a new unknown person again.
8. You’ve become cooler
Maybe you lost a lot of weight after the breakup. Or you just took care of yourself, changed your style, and became more confident. Then your ex will definitely want to get to know the “new you.” But this is only a superficial, physical desire.
9. He misses all the good things that happened between you.
He thought he missed his bachelor life, but in reality, being single again, he realizes what he has lost and how good it was.
10. You have become unavailable.
As we often say, men are like hunters and love the taste of the chase. When you were together, you were completely at his disposal. But now you are unavailable, and this is a new challenge for him.
11. He really changed.
This is the rarest reason of all, but it still happens if a man really wants to change.
12. He wants to flatter himself
He wants to prove to himself that he can get you back if he wants. He wants to flatter himself that you can’t forget him and are ready to take him back no matter what. It’s cruel, but it happens.
13. He regrets the way he treated you.
Guys often don’t realize how badly they treated a girl until she leaves. And then they start to feel sorry. But getting back together after that will never work. He may be nice at first, but then when he gets used to it again, he will start acting the same way again.