Relationship Advice: A woman you can’t bear to touch
It is impossible to overdo it with feelings, just as it is impossible to control real passion.
Someone who has experience of such emotions will never agree to a boring copy, no matter how good the person sitting opposite is. You know, communication with her is a little unusual. She is just one of those people, one of those women, whom, when you meet, you want to immediately sit next to you on the shore, throw a blanket over her shoulders, hug her, and never let go. You unbearably want to touch her.
It’s hard to just talk to her when you’re between cities, and especially between different countries. That’s why she evokes mixed feelings—animal instincts mixed with intellect. No matter how you look at it, good sex is 70% of a good relationship, and only after that comes comfort, everyday life, and all sorts of bland crap.
Therefore, if sex is so-so, then you should not have illusions that something will improve or change, because by agreeing to this minimum, you are condemning yourself to separation in advance, simply postponing it for later. You can see your person right away, and you always want to taste him, and what else is left when you are not able to think about anything else at all?
And how does it look in the end, do you remember? “Let me come to your place; let’s watch some new movie.” “Yeah, let’s do it!” “What the hell movie!” you think, and already in the hallway you help her take off her jacket, T-shirt, and everything else.
Passion and chemistry have become a rarity for many, and fools even see it as primitive. But it is such a thrill to look at a person and feel how one looks. It pleasantly cramps the muscles in your legs, and one touch stops time, giving you the illusion of endless happiness and inner harmony.
This is exactly how chemistry looks in my eyes, unlike what we were so persistently taught at school. “Take care of the person in you,” Chekhov said, and I will say, “Don’t lose it in yourself.”
