Relationship Advice: 26 Things That Kill Femininity

Stop complaining about the lack of proper male attention! Here are some things that kill femininity.

Women often complain that they lack male attention and that it is difficult to find their soulmate. Desperate, many try to find a way to kill their femininity or hide it behind a screen of worries. In order to realize how much you are a woman (as well as a man), you need to compare yourself with a model. I believe that you will have enough courage to realize those things that may hinder your femininity.

So, here are 26 things that kill femininity:

Vanity. A woman takes on something she can’t handle, then she starts to fuss. Vanity and satisfaction are incompatible things.

Excessive social activity. In fact, this is how she tries to compensate for the lack of love, but it does not work. She should engage in external activities only in her free time from family responsibilities and only for the soul.
Excessive communication outside. Outside the family, outside her comfort zone. That is, she should communicate only with those who love her. A man should communicate with those who do not love him; he develops, overcoming difficulties. A woman should not be outside her comfort zone. One of the mistakes: doing something she does not like.
Work. Why? A woman overcomes difficulties there; usually she is busy with men’s work. Even if it is women’s work, but it takes a lot of time, it is already an obstacle for a woman to do housework. If a woman does not like it, if she gets up in the morning with difficulty and goes there, then it is not a woman’s work.

Trousers. These are men’s clothes. Also, if a woman has a limited, scanty, pale, or unloved wardrobe. This also includes the absence of a closet in which a woman keeps her entire wardrobe. A closet means nothing to a man, but to a woman it is the whole world.

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Not a feminine haircut. This does not mean that it is short or long, although the longer the better. It should be neat and well-groomed. Short is more practical, but practicality is a word from the lexicon of men.

Lack of jewelry. Inability to use accessories. It is a man’s duty to give jewelry, no matter if it is diamonds or costume jewelry. Everyone has different possibilities. Women even wear kanthimala in silver or gold.

Lack of body care. Lack of regular physical activity also kills femininity, as does lack of cosmetic procedures.

Emotional constipation. Unwillingness to communicate. A woman forbids herself to express emotions. Sometimes women believe that they have the right only to good emotions; this is not true. There should be a person next to her, next to whom she can express any of her emotions. Hysterics happen when a man does not listen to a woman or when a woman listens to a man’s emotions. But anger must be controlled; no one can restrain anger; if you do not express it, it destroys. If you express anger, it destroys relationships. It is better to express it without showing it to anyone, for example, in a special room.

Lack of a hobby. This is an activity for the soul that does not bring money but only moral satisfaction. And man should be aware of this. If a woman likes to sew, you need to buy her a sewing machine. If it’s karaoke or dancing, you need to take her there. And a woman should understand that this is normal and set aside time for it.

Lack of creativity. Very similar, but these are different things. Flowers, flower beds, interiors—a woman should live creatively. She should have a piece of the universe where she can express this creativity. A man also has things to do around the house that a woman cannot do. He has a day off, and he works around the house, doing what has accumulated over the week. If he lies around all day on a day off, he degrades.
An attempt to lead. A woman can lead very well, but it is better for her not to do this; it is not her nature. A woman should inspire. External things are decided only by man. For example, a woman herself asked to take a loan and then went crazy about how to pay it off. Only a man can decide such questions, and it is better for a woman not to know about it at all.

Lack of feminine load. By the time she does everything—cleans, cooks, hangs up, wipes, and waters—she is already tense. A housewife does everything—this is a big mistake. A woman should have feminine types of loads: yoga, dancing.

Conflicts. A woman should not participate in conflicts; her communication should be non-conflictual. This especially concerns communication with men. If she conflicts with them, she becomes ruder.

Men’s duties. Tightening the screws, rearranging furniture, running a business, commanding a company, earning money for the family, loans, mortgages… These are all men’s duties, and women do not participate in them.

Competition. Women’s nature is destroyed by competition. A woman has no need to fight to be the best for someone; she does not need to prove to him that she is better than others. And here you do not need to think that she will become selfish; a modern woman does not love herself; she is far from female egoism.

Independence. Self-reliance, strength, strict control, persistence in achieving one’s goals.

Pride. When a woman thinks about everything, “I can do it myself.” Or when she thinks in any situation, “I can do it better, faster, better.” Sometimes pride is in the phrase, “Why humiliate myself and ask?”

Attachment to the result. When a woman sets a condition, she says, “If this does not happen, I will feel bad.” A reasonable woman is happy with what she has. Otherwise, she begins to think that she will go and get her 5 kopecks herself. But a woman does not feel happy when she spends her money on herself. She feels happy when a man does it for her.
Anger, or rather incorrectly expressed anger. Anger is resentment, condemnation, and foul language. Anger is born from contemplating objects of pleasure. A woman becomes attached to what she contemplates, and it is impossible to get everything that you contemplate. Therefore, feelings must be controlled not at the moment when attachment has already appeared but at the very beginning.
Mechanical life. A woman puts love into what she does.

Complaints. A woman does not complain; she says what she feels. And when she complains, then someone becomes guilty. The difference between a request and a complaint is in the mood. A woman consults with a man and does not confront him with a fact.

Men’s sports and recreation. Fishing, basketball, and football do not make a woman look good.

Lack of girlfriends. A woman needs women for intimate communication.

Lack of personal time. Just for yourself and just for women’s nonsense. A woman definitely needs to spend time on nonsense, and sometimes money too.
Lack of proper sleep. If a woman goes to bed late, she gets up late. A woman should have all the conditions for normal sleep, ideally a separate room.

Let every beautiful lady reading these lines be filled with even more unique charm of femininity, although, undoubtedly, each of you is already unique today and worthy of the best sonnets.