Relationship Advice: 8 Signs a Man Is Stopping Loving You

Relationship Advice: 8 Signs a Man Is Stopping Loving You

Don’t miss this moment!

Surely many, after parting with a loved one (this applies more to the female half), begin to think where the mistake was made when the moment came after which the countdown began? Love does not die immediately. Gradually. With every reproach that was not necessary to express, with every gesture of indifference, with every mockery. With every minute lived out of habit. And about men, you can clearly trace when their feelings begin to fade.

1. He stops talking.

One of the early signs of a cooling relationship is silence. When you have nothing to say to each other over breakfast. Communication in this case becomes a heavy burden. He does not want to believe what is going on in his soul; he is not interested in listening to her affairs and problems.

2. He stopped doing things

Any normal man, when he loves a woman, tries to impress her. Behave like a gentleman, make her happy, basically do something for her. But if love goes away, then these things evaporate along with it.

3. He doesn’t have time for you.

Bad. Very bad. As they say, if he wants, he will find a reason; if he doesn’t, he will find a reason. A man always finds time and energy for his beloved woman. Even if there is nowhere to get it from. My grandmother told me that my grandfather would go to her after a full shift at the factory and evening classes. He would get ready and go. Love is the ability to sacrifice something for the sake of another. And if you don’t want to sacrifice anything, then it is parasitism.

4. It flares up for no reason.

A man cannot be seriously angry with a woman he loves. He can argue, but he will not shout or openly get angry. And undisguised anger is not a good sign at all.

5. Closed door

If before the doors of his life were always wide open, now he lets you into his world with noticeable tension and reluctance, hides something, does not make contact, and does not speak openly about his thoughts. And this is not necessarily a sign of betrayal; it is just that his feelings have changed and he no longer feels the desire to open up.

6. Lack of physical contact

You can sleep without love. Alas. But besides sex, there are many more intimate things that show a special reverent attitude towards a person: kisses, hugs, funny somersaults, and cute hugs when saying goodbye or meeting. Even a simple gesture—putting your head on his chest—can be perceived by him as something foreign and undesirable.

7. He withdraws from your world.

You can be happy or sad, but he no longer wants to share these emotions with you. More and more often, the man turns to the principle of “you have your own life, I have mine.” And all the intersections of two lives are becoming more and more difficult for him.

8. He stops caring

Care is one of the main things that men give to their beloved women. This care can be expressed differently by each person: someone is used to giving flowers without a reason, while someone will cook dinner and wash the floors. You know, like in Prostokvashino: “I think that the most valuable gift for a woman is a sack of potatoes. Do you know how many sacks I carried for your mother?” In any case, the absence of any manifestations of care characteristic of your man indicates a cooling of feelings.

It hurts to admit that a relationship is broken, but it’s not the end. You can’t just get used to love. You can’t take it for granted. It’s not a bar of gold in a safe under lock and key. It’s a flower that withers if you don’t water it. Water your love and be happy!