Relationship Advice: 18 Things Women Should Never Apologize For
18 Things Women Should Never Apologize For
As women, we have been taught since childhood to apologize for many things that do not require an apology. This is a list of things women should never apologize for.
Why should we apologize for being blunt or for putting ourselves first? We shouldn’t worry about a situation that is beyond our control and live our lives the way we see fit. After all, it’s better to apologize than to ask permission for something. Here’s a list of things women shouldn’t apologize for.
18 Things Women Should Never Apologize For:
1. “These Days”
This topic can be developed at length because, frankly speaking, the very idea of apologizing for the fact that one week every month we suffer from cramps and bleeding—and all in order to bear offspring and give this world even more bleeding women—is absurd in itself.
Women certainly shouldn’t ask for forgiveness for this and feel guilty towards their partner if he has to abstain during these days.
2. Sexual preferences
Whether you love men or women, or both, you don’t have to justify your choice to anyone.
3. Breast size
Huge boobs or a flat chest—no matter the size, you should be proud and love yourself with the breasts that nature has given you.
4. Independence
Being able to take care of yourself and rely on yourself is a wonderful thing. Whether it’s financial independence, emotional independence, or just being able to have a coffee on your own while sitting on a park bench, there’s nothing wrong with that.
You can send to hell everyone who tries to convince you otherwise and deprive you of this wonderful feeling!
5. Makeup
If you feel comfortable with makeup, wear it (in every sense of the word)! It’s fun and makes us feel more beautiful—what’s wrong with that? Moreover, if you feel like wearing all the makeup you have, go for it!
6. Number of sexual partners
How many sexual partners a girl has had is just one small statistical summary of her romantic history. This topic has been discussed many times, and the conclusion is that the times when there was a certain acceptable number of partners are long gone.
7. Type of behavior
You love to make to-do lists, hate being late, and hate it when someone else is late. If you’re overbooked and leave notes everywhere, you don’t have to apologize for it.
8. Nightmare view
Apologizing for your appearance will only give others the green light to laugh at you. Unless you’re a Gwyneth Paltrow type, no one expects you to look flawless all the time.
9. Femininity
Since when is being feminine a bad thing? Why should we feel guilty about discussing each other’s hair, watching How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days, or doing our nails?
These girly activities are really fun—much more fun than, for example, watching guys spend hours trying to take the ball from each other.
10. Squeezing pimples
Pimples have no purpose other than to be squeezed! And persisting in this is like telling a child not to press the elevator button.
We know picking at your own face isn’t the best idea, but don’t let dermatologists shame you into trying to solve the problem the old-fashioned way.
11. Put relationships first
Valuing relationships and making them a priority is what it means to be together! If your significant other is the most important thing to you, know that this is wonderful and happens extremely rarely!
If you sacrifice something for someone close to you, you shouldn’t have to justify it.
12. Healthy eating
Can’t a woman refuse a plate of cookies without having to justify her desire to eat healthy?
We feel ashamed when we are fat, when we are too thin, and now when we make good, healthy choices? Your body should thank you for it, not apologize.
13. Dislike for children
All children are beautiful, but not all of them are lovable. Not everyone feels touched when a child mumbles words no one understands while shitting his pants!
14. Earn more money
You must stop feeling guilty about your success and start enjoying it. Know your worth and be proud of what you deserve!
15. Reluctance to have sex
It doesn’t matter if you’ve just met your partner or if you’ve been in a serious relationship for a long time. If you’re not in the mood, you’re not in the mood!
16. Put work first
If your work brings you the most joy in life, there is no reason why you cannot give it your all. It makes a big difference whether you let your work fill your life or work hard at the thing you have dedicated your life to.
17. Be as you are
Remember: You are incredible! And there will always be malicious, envious people. Shine and love yourself as you are!
18. Eating too much
The only person you should apologize to for eating too much is your own body if it’s bloated like a balloon.
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