Love Advice: Why Do Men Leave, Or How To Become Special To Them?
Why do men leave, or how to become special for him? How to communicate with your beloved so that he gets high, goes crazy about what a cool, amazing woman you are, and you live happily ever after?
Because they lack something. They find what they lack in others. So, what to do? You, as a woman, must possess or communicate with your man in three hypostases.
Woman-friend
What does it mean to be a female friend? Who is a female friend? In a relationship with a man, you need to act like a friend—it’s sneakers, it’s pants, it’s helping a man push his car out of the garage, it’s covering for your man, it’s sitting on a bench with him and maybe drinking beer if you like.
If necessary, get dirty. This is a friend you can rely on, who will help, who will understand, and who will advise you in business or a career. In general, a friend, a comrade, a real comrade, with whom he will go on reconnaissance. You are that very friend; do not forget about it.
Woman-muse
This is your other hypostasis, that is, a woman-muse is something light, airy, and very feminine.
Here you are feminine, inspiring, and at the same time some kind of cosmic, delicate, fragile, that is, a muse who admires her man. In this guise, you wear other clothes—these are romantic outfits, such as a flowing dress, a lace blouse, a flowing skirt, etc. You organize romantic evenings, dinner with wine by candlelight, etc.
A muse who appreciates a man feels him subtly and pushes him forward.
Woman-lover
There is a lot of debauchery and a lot of sex; it is flirting with your man.
No matter how long you’ve been together, 5 years or 7, you flirt with him. Even if you’re 50 and he’s 60, you flirt with him.
It’s “Let’s go to the toilet, I’m hot, I want you.” You send him nasty text messages when he’s at work. You put pants in your jacket pocket, etc.
Friend, muse, and lover, remember?
Together, here she is, the ideal woman.
As a rule, one hypostasis is missing, sometimes two. Men leave for other women because their own woman is a friend and a muse for them, but not a lover.
Or a friend and a lover, but not inspiring. A lover can be perceived only as a lover. A friend—only as a friend.
Another point: the atmosphere
You create an atmosphere for men, organize some events, and enjoy leisure. You plan leisure, you come up with entertainment, and you do it so that he relaxes, enjoys himself, and earns more and more from his business. Therefore, you create an atmosphere and organize events.
And what is also important is how you present your man to others.
You are your man’s main PR person. You admire him throughout your life together, extol him among other men, and tell your friends about him.
And he sees and feels it—this is additional support for him.
Here are the rules that will help you always stay fresh and always desired in a relationship, whether you have been together for 5 years or 45. It doesn’t matter.
