Small gestures that make a man imagine you as his wife. Men shared the moments when they start to imagine their girlfriend as their future wife.
1. Anything that shows you care
“I once told her I loved plum jam. And the next time I went to see her, that’s what she had. Honestly, guys like anything that shows you care about them.”
2. Touching kisses
“I feel a special warmth, love and care when my girlfriend comes up from behind and kisses my back. I can’t explain it… It’s not a sexual moment, but it’s very meaningful.”
3. Compliments
“When I unexpectedly hear a compliment about something she appreciates about me, it lets me know that she thinks about me, appreciates my actions and wants me to know it.”
4. Hands in hair
“When she runs her fingers through my hair...”
5. Little things
“My girlfriend puts toothpaste on my toothbrush before bed. It’s such a small thing, but so sweet! When she puts her hand on my leg when we’re driving… When she comes up behind me and gives me a light neck massage… Or when she leaves notes, even if it’s “Don’t eat my slice of pizza!”
6. Smile
“When I come home from work and see her smiling, even though I know she’s had a hard day too.”
7. She collects my brakes
“She makes me a snack every day to take to work. And when I open it on my lunch break, I feel a special warmth knowing that she did it for me.”
8. Communication
“Girls often keep quiet about problems so that we figure everything out ourselves. So when a girl is straightforward and we can talk about anything, it’s a sign that everything will work out for us.”
9. Initiative
“When she takes the initiative in romantic moments – a kiss or a hug – it shows that I am desired.”
10. Real effort
“She may not know what I want and what I need, but if she tries to please me, it’s nice.”
11. Interest
“When she asks me how my day was and really listens. And if she then hugs and kisses me – for that I am ready to give up my freedom.”
12. Feelings
“When we sleep in the spoon position, or when she snuggles up to me in a way that makes me feel like I’m her protector and that she’s trusting me with herself.”
