Love Advice: All Men Fall in Love Only With The Woman Who Has This Trait.
All men fall in love only with the woman who has this feature. Remember and use it! Many women have asked themselves more than once: What kind of women do men prefer? Those who wear heels and make-up 24 hours a day? Or maybe the stronger sex likes fragile, sensitive girls who need to be protected? These are all external attributes. Men are primarily attracted to those who have only one feature.
It’s not the perfect clothes, not the big breasts, not the perfect manicure, or the pumped-up lips. And it’s not even the legs from the ears!
Attention! Relationship researchers, after long and meticulous investigations, have concluded that everyone falls in love with… happiness! Surprised? We are not at all. Is it strange that both men and women are attracted to a joyful person? Those who radiate positive emotions with their whole appearance make it clear that anyone will be happy with such a person.
Agree, each of us is a little selfish by nature. And when choosing a partner, we think first of all about our own well-being. Looking at a happy person, we subconsciously come to the conclusion that we will be happy next to such a partner.
Naturally, happiness is a very vague concept for everyone. But if you average it out, all people who fall in love have these qualities:
1. They don’t “load.”
Looking at a happy person, you feel light. He is not sad without reason and does not complain about the world, government, or evil people. He is always and everywhere happy. He is happy only because he lives in this world and has the opportunity to see the world around him.
2. Smile
Psychologists conducted an interesting experiment. Respondents were shown some photographs in which people were smiling and some in which they were serious. Then the participants in the experiment were asked to answer who seemed more attractive to them.
The result is not surprising: smiling people turned out to be attractive to them. Even though their non-smiling “competitors” are naturally more beautiful.
3. Treat people better than others
New guy in the office? “Oh, come on, he’s weird.” A young man wants to meet you on the street. Ugly.” How often do we label people before we even get to know them? That’s why people who are as positive as possible about others are highly valued.
4. They know how to talk about more than just themselves
Your social networks can tell you what you like and what you can’t stand. But what can communicating with you give to another person? If you know how to lift the mood, give joy, and make people smile, then it’s worth a lot!
5. See good where others see bad
Nasty weather? Everyone can see it. Why focus on the negative when you can talk about the positive? People with this attitude attract others.
Let’s imagine a man invited two girls to the same movie. The movie was not the best. The first girl immediately said, “It was total crap,” and curled her lips.
Naturally, our gentleman felt like a loser. And the second girl agreed with her companion that “the movie wasn’t very good,” but suggested, let’s say, brightening up the evening’s impressions by going to a pastry shop. Guess which of the young ladies the man will fall in love with?
London-based psychotherapist Allen de Botton devotes much attention to studying relationships between the sexes. In one of his articles, he concluded: “Instincts draw us to those people who can make us happy.”
Thus, we can conclude that people fall in love not with those who are abstractly good-looking but with those who can give warmth and care! All men fall in love only with the woman who has this feature. Do you agree with this?
