20 signs that he no longer loves you

Men will never tell you that they no longer love you in front, especially if they still have feelings for you – not necessarily love, but respect.

Even if they want to move on, they cannot and will not forget the time you spent together so easily.

But there are signs that could trigger your alert that he might leave you.

Everything is in body language. You can easily see through someone just how they behave.

Usually women ignore these signs although they are clear like spring water.

No one is happy to have to accept the fact that their marriage or couple is falling apart.

It is perfectly normal to live in denial because as soon as we accept the fact that things are no longer the same, it means that it is over.

Love has many different facets.

If someone tells you they love you, it doesn’t necessarily mean that love will last forever.

This does not necessarily mean that you are the right person for him, or that he is the right person for you.

Surely you had a connection, but it may not have been true love.

It was probably a craze, a short-term * that faded over time.

If you stop fooling yourself into thinking that you can save what has been broken for a long time, you may be able to find a way to save yourself from being injured and prepare for the rejection to come.

So be brave, and don’t try to avoid the inevitable.

Face the situation you find yourself in and face it like the strong woman you are.

1. He ignores you

It is as if you no longer exist. He begins to live his life completely apart.

Before, all you did was a mutual decision. And now you don’t even know when he intends to do something.

When you are there, he becomes weird and pretends to be alone. Even if he needs something like an ironed shirt, he won’t ask you for it.

He will go get it, and if it is not ironed, he will do it alone.

2. Lack of communication

One of the biggest signs that he doesn’t like you anymore is the lack of communication. It’s not like ignoring.

It is much more serious and on a deeper level. When he is no longer interested in you, he will cut you off.

He will lose the need to communicate with you in any way.

Whether it’s communication through body language, verbal communication or simple eye contact, it will end it all.

Then it is time for you to realize that it is over. You don’t have to make an effort when you can’t even speak properly.

3. It saves you

Did it happen that one way or another, you cannot cross paths while you live in the same apartment?

It is not a coincidence. He knows your daily routines and schedules, and he knows when you get home.

So he makes sure he isn’t there when you get home. When a man stops loving you, he will try to avoid you to make you realize that he wants to go.

Spending time together will become rare.

4. He is not involved in your life

Maybe before you were doing things together, but not anymore. He suddenly abandoned everything that interests you.

Suddenly, he hates your hobbies, and he thinks they are irrelevant.

If he does not respect your interests, it means that he thinks that you are not relevant.

He also abandoned your friends. When your relationship worked, he loved spending time with you and your friends.

Now, every time you ask him to go out with you or your friends, he rejects you. It literally breaks all the ties he had with you.

5. He is rude

He is tough with his words in private and in public, that is to say, he does not really choose his words.

It doesn’t even matter that he doesn’t care about you at all, it’s just that he may be too cowardly to admit that he doesn’t love you anymore.

So use his words and rude behavior to let you know what he wants.

6. He demeans you

Do you feel that he always finds a way to belittle you? Even when you are with your friends or family, he tries to humiliate you by making jokes about you.

Others may not notice it, but you know it’s not just jokes, he is mean to you without reason.

7. He is mysterious

See if this scenario reminds you of anything: he gets ready, glances at his phone and smiles, or someone calls him, and he goes into the other room to answer.

Moments later, he’s at the door, grabbing the doorknob, leaving you to wonder where he’s going and with whom.

It is not fair. If you have chosen to live together, you must share everything. Believe me, this is a sign that he no longer loves you.

If he no longer feels the need to tell you where he’s going just so you don’t have to worry, then he’s really stopped caring for you.

8. He’s lying to you

It couldn’t be worse. It’s as simple as that: if he hides things from you, he doesn’t respect you or your relationship.

Apriori, he lacks courage, so he lies.

9. He’s hiding his phone

If they send someone a message and you’re right next to them, they’ll probably turn their phone screen in another direction, so you can’t see them.

And even if you try to get your hands on her phone, it’s impossible. He will make sure you never find him because he will always be on him.

10. Is hot and cold

One moment, it’s all over you, ready to give you the world, and the other, it’s acting like you don’t even exist.

It happens because even he is not an emotionless machine. He still has feelings for you.

It is not easy to simply delete someone from their life. He is probably still thinking about whether he will leave you or not.

That’s why it acts hot and cold. But if he does, it’s only a matter of time before he leaves you.

11. He gets angry easily

He gets angry at the smallest thing. Her tolerance level decreases more and more every day. He yells at you for no good reason, and makes stories out of thin air

In other words, he shouts that he wants to go out!

12. There is no more “I love you”

He stopped telling you that he loves you. It wouldn’t be so important if his gestures and actions hadn’t stopped showing you his love.

But in your case, the acts and words of love are long gone.

13. He stops making you happy

He stopped doing things for you. All those cute little things that you liked and that made you feel special, that made you feel that you belong to him, and only to him, are all gone.

He doesn’t even try anymore. He completely stopped caring.

14. He compares you to other women

He compares you to any woman he sees on the street, saying that you should be more like her, that you should dress like her or change your hairstyle.

He also compares you to his ex and that’s the part that hurts the most.

Sometimes, during an unimportant conversation, he will mention it to you in a positive light, which means that you should follow his example.

15. He never apologizes

No matter if he is wrong, he will never apologize to you, while on the other hand, when you screw up and hurt him, he wants an apology as soon as possible, otherwise he will sulk all day.

But when he messes up, you don’t have the right to apologize. He will pretend that nothing has happened.

It’s a clear sign that he doesn’t respect you because he doesn’t care if your feelings have been hurt or not which leads to the conclusion that he probably doesn’t like you at all.

16. You are not his priority

It places you at the bottom of its priority list. If he has to choose between something he likes and you, he won’t choose you.

That means he doesn’t love you because a man who loves you would always put you first, no matter what.

Normally, a man who loves you would drop everything immediately to come and save you if you needed to.

17. He doesn’t talk about the future

He never talks about your future together, which means he doesn’t want you in his.

Maybe, for now, you agree with him, and he wants you to be there for whatever reason, but it won’t be long term.

When that happens, you will know that the spark that kept your relationship alive is gone. There is no point in trying to revive it because it has already burned.

18. He no longer strives

Whether we like it or not, the fact is that most relationships sooner or later fall into a rut.

However, that doesn’t mean that you and your partner should take you for granted, just because you’ve been together for a long time.

But that’s exactly what your boyfriend did, right? He became so sure of your love that he stopped making efforts towards you.

Even if you think such a thing is normal in any long-term relationship, the truth is that it is a sure sign that your boyfriend’s love for you is gone.

It is clear that this guy is not ready to budge for your good, and that is not how someone who loves you would behave.

19. Everything you do bothers him

When we love someone, everything they do seems funny and cute to us.

On the other hand, when we can’t bear someone’s guts, just the fact of existing, breathing and doing nothing bothers us.

And that’s exactly what’s going on with your boyfriend. All the things he considered adorable about you became a source of irritation.

If so, it is clear that he has grown tired of your relationship.

He may not want to accept this as a sign that he no longer loves you, or that he feels guilty for his lack of feelings, but if he is frustrated by your presence in his life, his emotions for you are far from what they should be.

20. He avoids *

Yes, you read that right. It is possible for men to avoid intimacy once they lose their feelings for their partner.

So if your boyfriend is no longer trying to have * or suddenly has stopped trying in the bedroom, this is one of the signs that he no longer loves you.

The point is, you no longer cuddle, kiss, kiss, and hold hands.

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