How to respect yourself so that you will be loved. How to learn to value yourself. As Vasily Osipovich Klyuchevsky said: “A man usually loves women whom he respects; a woman usually respects only men whom she loves.”
And it is so. The nature of a man is that love and respect are interrelated. And if a girl wants to be loved, respect must be taken care of first and foremost.
1. Not to be a woman
“Yes.” Men tend to respect those who have their own opinion, even if it contradicts their own. A girl who agrees with everything a man suggests or says is unlikely to arouse deep feelings in him.
2. Don’t get drunk Yes, men have double standards on this matter.
If one of their comrades gets completely drunk, they will later simply say that they had a good time, but a drunk woman, especially in a public place, is a shame, a disgrace, and generally a humiliating sight for them.
3. Have your own life
Most men want to be part of a woman’s life, but not her whole life. Men do not respect women who make them the “light in the window”. A girl who has her interests, hobbies, and friends is much more attractive.
4. Don’t jump into bed with the first person you meet.
Intimacy on the first date is the surest way to start a relationship with disrespect. The truth is that men do not appreciate what they get easily. The more effort he puts into winning her over, the more he values his girl.
And the longer they wait for this moment, the more they will respect her for her principles and discernment.
5. Don’t lie Honesty is the key to any healthy relationship.
A little lie, as we know, gives birth to big grievances. And destroys precious trust. Any lie will sooner or later return to you like a boomerang.
6. Don’t complain about your ex
Everything is at work here: a test for lice, the girl’s decency, and banal male solidarity. And no matter what kind of bastard your ex was, it is important to understand the line beyond which it is dangerous to say anything.
It’s better to limit yourself to a few phrases—honest but exhaustive. Otherwise, he will think that in case of a breakup, you will speak about him in the same way as your new boyfriend.
7. Don’t flirt with others
It’s not just jealousy. The thing is that open flirting will bring you unnecessary fame, and people will look at him as a cuckold. You know, no man’s pride can stand that. And then, if he sees you as a girl of “easy behavior”, he’s unlikely to respect you.
8. Be yourself
There is no need to pretend to be someone else; men respect those women who can be honest with themselves. Everyone wants to see a real person next to them, without pretense and empty talk.
9. Be a lady A lady is the highest embodiment of a Woman.
No need to pretend to be your boyfriend, behave cheekily, or rattle your “steel balls”. Tenderness, femininity, and purity are the qualities that never cease to be valued by men, even if they never admit it.
