Relationship Advice: What Repels A Man’s Attention!!!
So, let’s get started. Take a pen and study yourself carefully. Answer honestly and openly.
1. Negativism.
A woman focuses excessively on what is wrong with herself and her life in general. This is called a complex. That is, subconsciously, she is constantly “hanging” on what is wrong with her life. This may include: low income, boring work, stupidity of friends, problems, hopelessness, etc. So a woman literally “drowns” in all the negativity that she has. She either endlessly thinks about it herself or discusses it with her friends.
And when she tries to pretend that everything is OK with her, stretching out an artificial smile, nothing comes of it. Because the non-verbal signals of the body (a trembling tone of voice, a downcast look, a hunched posture, a wobbly gait) let you know about the true state of affairs.
And that is why those around (especially men) quickly notice that the woman literally radiates negativity and that her life is a complete “mess.” And who would want more negativity than what is already there? That is why a man’s attention is repelled by this woman.
2. Self-obsession
If a woman has been disappointed in love (and they usually have a problem with attracting a man’s attention), then she is literally fixated on herself. Having had a negative experience in the past, such a woman begins to make excessive demands on the men around her.
She begins to think that someone owes her something: to give her flowers, gifts, attention, care, devotion, etc. She perceives man only as a source of all sorts of endless blessings. But there is no real connection with him. That is, such a woman thinks endlessly about how she should feel positive in order to psychologically compensate for “all that bad” that has already happened in her life.
At the same time, she is internally completely indifferent to the tastes, habits, and intentions of a man. This attitude is “for me to feel good,” and this repels the attention of a man, because what adequate person would want to build a relationship with a complete egoist?
3. Problematic
Every new day brings new problems. Women who repel men’s attention, as a rule, do not know how to solve their problems on their own. Someone does not earn enough, someone cannot organize a vacation for themselves, someone cannot buy a thing they like. And the inability to solve their pressing problems leads to the fact that a woman subconsciously perceives a man as a “panacea for her troubles and problems.”
That is, okay, a woman can’t solve problems. This is not the worst thing, since she is a woman (a weak and defenseless creature). But the negative factor here is precisely that a woman subconsciously develops the conviction that a man is needed precisely to alleviate her less than ideal state. A man begins to be perceived as a kind of assistant in solving problems and not a separate person.
Therefore, a consumer approach to a man arises. And which man would want to be used in someone else’s interests?! That is why this attitude repels a man’s attention.
4. Lack of energy
To be sexy, it is not enough to say the mantra every morning: “I am sexy!” Sexuality is energy! And therefore, in order to radiate sexuality, a woman needs to raise the energy tone of her physical body.
Women who repel men’s attention are usually physically inactive. They don’t go to the pool, don’t dance, don’t jump rope, and don’t run in the morning. They are physically passive. That is why their body’s energy tone is extremely low. And at the same time, their level of sexuality is low. And where there is no sexuality, there is no male attention.
5. Lack of flexibility
When I analyzed the cases of women who are “bypassed” by men, the following was noticed: In their lives, too, there are moments when some man will once and then once and then speak to them.
But the man’s inability to “play along” in this situation leads to his interest suddenly disappearing, and he literally “runs away”. The lack of flexibility manifests itself in the following:
inability to give a compliment
It is essential for a man to receive approval for his actions. And a well-made compliment at the right time can melt even the coldest heart. And vice versa, the lack of compliments from a man is considered a manifestation of coldness on her part.
— not being able to “shoot with your eyes.”
A look is one of the most important weapons of any seductress since the times of Geishas and Courtesans. And if a woman does not know how to attract a man’s attention, then this is largely due to the fact that she simply does not know how to “shoot with her eyes.”.
– unsmiling
If a woman frowns and does not smile, this is an indicator that she does not want to meet other people because she does not want to please them. And therefore, her “closedness” is assessed by a man as a “red light” (a kind of “stop signal”), and his attention is repelled from her.
In this article, I present these negative “metaprograms” with one single goal: to help you find the “enemy” in yourself as quickly as possible if the problem of inattention from men is relevant for you. And knowing your “enemy,” in fact, allows you to defeat him!
