Do Not Start A Relationship With Such A Person In 2025, Under Any Circumstances!

People sometimes quarrel. It doesn’t always happen brightly, and maybe it can’t always be called quarrels, but disagreements happen to any couple, there’s no way around it. We are not telepaths, sometimes we don’t understand each other, sometimes we misunderstand, interpret incorrectly, add to things, twist things, and all that kind of stuff.

This is a natural part of our life, and we should not expect anything else. Only naive twenty-year-old girls can think that life together is always soul to soul. In fact, even a very loving couple has disagreements and disagreements (and, if they want to, quarrels).

After most quarrels, reconciliations happen. And this is where you can understand whether it is worth starting a serious relationship with a person or whether it is better to stop now.

By the way, a little aside. People tend to turn off their brains at the beginning of a relationship and not notice the obvious signs of, um, harmful relationships (let’s call it that). Here’s a man who pushed a woman in the heat of the moment – she didn’t notice. Five years later, he’ll be beating her in front of their children.

Here is a woman making fun of her boyfriend’s clothes in front of her friends – he didn’t notice. Five years later, she will curse him with the worst words in front of her employees and business partners.

Remember – you can’t skip things like this. Ever.

If you slap someone’s hands at the very beginning of a relationship, it may very well turn out that the person will think about it and change their tune (of course, they may not change their tune – anything can happen). But if you don’t slap someone’s hands, they definitely won’t change their tune.

Now that all the preliminary part has been said, let’s move on to the mentioned sign. It is not always noticeable, but only after quarrels (that’s why I talked so much about quarrels).

As I have already said, after quarrels comes reconciliation. And it always and for everyone follows the same scenario. Someone comes first and offers to make peace. How exactly they offer is no longer important. What is important is that someone makes the first step . And this is where our sign appears.

How can a person react to an offer to make peace? Basically, there are only two ways – to agree or to refuse.

And if you approached and said, let’s make peace, and the person responded happily – that’s good. If you approached, and the person continues to sulk and/or demands special compensation from you – that’s a reason to be wary.

But the most important point is different. If you approached, offered to make peace and the person – attention! – says that he was wrong, also got carried away, flared up for no reason, went too far, got too excited, overdid it, didn’t watch his words, and so on, then you can definitely continue to deal with him.

But if a person – attention! – says that you need to be more restrained, not get so excited, watch your language, not talk nonsense, and so on, then you need to stay as far away from such a person as possible.

Don’t start a relationship with such a person!

Why is that? A person who, at least in words, admits his participation in creating your quarrel, basically understands that a relationship is a matter of two. And that everything that happens in a relationship is also a matter of two. This is a person who is ripe for a relationship. He may not yet be very good at being in one, but he can already learn.

And a person who is sure that it is you who are to blame for the quarrel, who does not in any way, in any way, admit his contribution to the quarrel (or any other disagreement), such a person is not ready for a relationship. Not mature. You can hang out and have fun with him, but a serious relationship with him is contraindicated.

There will be no serious relationship with someone like that. Don’t hope. It’s better not to start a relationship with such people.

Let’s sum it up. You can build a relationship with a person if he admits his contribution to your disagreements. You can’t (forbidden, pointless, stupid – substitute any word with a similar meaning) build a relationship with a person if he blames only you for all disagreements.
That’s all for me, thank you for your attention.