The love of your life usually comes after the mistake of a lifetime. When you are ready! But what if it was the best thing that could have happened to you? You might never have left a toxic relationship if you hadn’t been forced out.
Sometimes we become so stubborn and insistent on holding on to what we think is love that it only ends up hurting us.
Maybe there was no other way. This was the push you needed to move on from something that wasn’t meant for you. Maybe you needed to break down so that your puzzles could be put back together—just differently.
Maybe you had to find yourself first so that the right person could find you. And your failures are an opportunity to learn something so that you can learn what love shouldn’t be.
Love is always two. Love should not ask. The one who wants to be in your life will find both time and opportunity to be there.
Love shouldn’t be cold. You should feel warm, no matter what time of year it is. You should never miss hugs and kisses.
Love shouldn’t be deaf to your problems. You should always have someone who will be there for you, who will at least listen, even if they can’t help. You shouldn’t feel alone in a relationship.
Love shouldn’t be torture. It shouldn’t make you cry more often than it makes you smile. Love can’t live in violence. You’ll feel like you belong to someone else, but you’ll be free. Free to be yourself.
Be grateful for the mistake of your life. It prepared you for what is yet to come. It prepared you for real life. It prepared you for the love of your life.
Your mistake will teach you to recognize your person when he comes. And you will recognize him—there is no doubt about it. You will feel the inner peace that you have been searching for so long because, finally, you will be with someone who cares about you as much as you care about him.
The understanding and chemistry that will develop between you will be magnetic.
She will pull you closer and closer to each other. It will be easy to make plans and spend time together because he will want to see you as much as you do.
You will be reciprocated, and you will feel it. At the same time, this love will calm you.
She will make you feel safe. You will feel like you have finally found your home, and you will have no doubts about it. For the first time in your life, you will be sure.
All of this will be because of the mistake in your life. Because of your mistake, you took the pieces of your heart and put them back together in your unique style that will attract the love of your life to you.
