Why Cheaters Usually Don’t Leave Their Wives: 5 Reasons. I don’t know if this is good or bad?.
1. He can be himself.
He’s known you forever, and no one else knows him like you do. You give him the space to be real. He’s comfortable with you.
So why leave you then? The ideal option: passion and emotions with a mistress, coziness and comfort with a wife and children.
2. He is only looking for a “vacation” from family life.
Most men go “left” not with the goal of leaving their family but simply to get distracted, to unwind. If everything is basically good and stable in your relationship, then the man just wants to add a little passion and adventure to his life.
3. Divorce is very painful.
Why subject yourself and your family to this if you don’t have to? If your wife seems happy with everything? Comfort and the opportunity to kill two birds with one stone are the main reasons why a man doesn’t leave his family.
Divorce is a very complicated, expensive, and painful process.
4. He still loves his wife.
It may seem illogical, but it is not. Cheating and love are compatible. People often hurt those they love. Cheating is an extreme case, of course, but still.
5. Children.
Often men stay with their wives so that their children can have a complete family. Most cheaters live in a reality that does not exist—a reality in which their bad behavior is completely justified.
Now you know why cheaters usually DO NOT leave their wives.