If a person decides to leave, he will leave anyway. No other way!
The more you hold a person, the more he will want to leave. And the relationship will get worse and worse: he will perceive us as a jailer who holds him by force; as an obstacle that hinders him. There will be nothing left of love, friendship, or respect. It makes no difference: to roll at your feet or to threaten with a gun.
If a person decides to leave, he will leave anyway. Even if you manage to postpone the inevitable for a while: by blackmail, bribery, flattery, threats… On the contrary, the more you hold on to a person, the more he will want to leave.
He will choose a convenient moment and run away.
And the relationship will get worse and worse: he will perceive us as a jailer who holds him by force; as an obstacle that hinders him. There will be nothing left of love, friendship, or respect.
It makes no difference whether to roll at your feet or threaten you with a gun.
The result is the same—it will choose a convenient moment and run away. The instinct of freedom will turn on; if you try to hold the animal, it will start biting, scratching, and breaking free. This is instinct; nothing can be done about instinct.
Persuasion, explanations, anger, and tears will not solve anything. And not even money, if we are talking about work.
You can postpone leaving for a while. But this will make the situation worse—he will leave anyway if he decides. It is better to let him go. Maybe he will come back—he will come back himself.
Maybe it will never come back. But there is no point in clinging; it only delays the inevitable. Continues the suffering and prolongs the uncertainty. Let them go if they decide.
The sooner they leave, the less suffering. And let them think when they are free whether it was worth leaving. And we will think whether it is worth letting back in the one who left.
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