Relationship Advice: How To Make A Man Love You Again. It Works 100% In 2025
It’s heartbreaking when you’re in love with someone and he suddenly decides he doesn’t feel the same way anymore. Whether you’ve been together for six months or six years, there are a few things you can try to fix your relationship before he tries to break up with you for good.
How to Make a Man Love You Again
1. Understand why this is happening
If you just found out he doesn’t love you anymore, the first step you can take to get his love back is to ask him why. As painful as it may be, it’s important to understand where things went wrong so you can get the relationship back on track. Even if it means a lot of soul-searching.
2. Ask him to take a time out.
His first instinct may be to tell you that he wants to break up. Instead, ask him to take a time out before he gets to that point.
If you spend some time apart, you will naturally start to miss each other. This may make him look at your relationship in a more positive light.
3. Set time limits on time away from each other
The worst thing you can do during a timeout is to allow it to continue indefinitely. There should be an end date when you can get back together and discuss how your time apart went and where you plan to go next.
4. Show him that you can live your own life
If he has agreed to a timeout, actually make the most of that timeout. Don’t grieve or wallow in tears; be smart. Use it as an opportunity to show him that you can not only survive without him but thrive.
After all, if you’re constantly holding on to someone, it’s not living. By allowing him to breathe and miss you, you’ll be more likely to attract him back to you.
5. Don’t bombard him with messages
Following on from the previous point, try not to bombard him with texts and calls telling him how much you miss him. Instead, take the other route and communicate with him as little as possible.
Considering that guys love mysterious women or those who play hard to get, he’ll start wondering where you are. In fact, you may pique his curiosity so much that he’ll just have to contact you.
6. Take care of your appearance; make an effort
Some relationships fail because the couple gets too comfortable with each other and gets “stuck in the mundane.” Maybe you don’t shave as often as you used to, rarely wear makeup , or hardly ever dress sexy compared to when you first started dating.
Another way to show your partner what they might be missing is to look sexy. Put in extra effort into your workouts, wear stylish clothes, and don’t be afraid to put on some makeup or curl your hair. Then post photos of you looking hot on social media. Trust me, it’ll be a great lure.
7. Agree to make changes
Once you guys have had a time out and are ready to meet and talk, you should have an open and honest conversation. Hopefully, the time apart has made you reflect on your relationship and helped you figure out where exactly you went wrong.
Agree to compromise with your significant other and give each other another chance. If he’s leaning toward a breakup, let him know you’re willing to change to make the relationship work (within reason—don’t sabotage who you are as a person for someone else).
8. Try to bring back the spark
If your partner has agreed to try again, this is your chance to try to bring back the spark. How? Well, be kind, attractive, considerate, and romantic. Often, the little things make a big difference in a relationship.
Do small, everyday gestures, like packing his lunch or giving him a massage when his back hurts. However, at the end of the day, it should be a two-way street. If you find yourself giving 100% to the relationship and he’s only giving 50%, you might be better off finding someone who will match your love and effort.
