Women believe that men don’t think about marriage at all, and if they do, they want a slave wife who will do everything he wants. But that’s not true. Most men want to make their future wives happy. They want to start a family, love, and be loved.
Relationships do not work out when both partners cannot reach a mutual understanding. Plus, they have wrong ideas about each other.
For example, if you believe that all men want only sex and tasty food, then you will not find a worthy man for yourself. This is what men expect from their future wives!
1. Understanding.
Men want to be understood. They want their future wife to support them in difficult times, not to blame them for mistakes and failures. They want their wife to understand their habits and hobbies. They lack this in different areas of life, so they crave understanding at least at home.
2. Less drama.
Quarrels are inevitable. But when you make a scene for no reason, or even worse, in front of mutual friends or parents, it’s terrible for a man. A man wants to resolve everything peacefully.
3. Honesty.
Women are more forgiving of lies, but men can’t stand them in any form. So don’t even think about lying to him about anything, because when it comes out (and it will), he’ll stop trusting you about everything else.
4. Cozy home.
Men like to come home and feel at home. Comfort and coziness help them relax after a busy day. They want to live in a clean house, although they may be a little disorganized.
They like the smell of home cooking; they like to sleep in a clean bed. Of course, a woman should not arrange all this herself as a servant, but she should show a desire to arrange their nest.
5. Romance.
It’s not just women who love romance. Men also want their future wives to remember little surprises, massages, and romantic dinners. Why do many men leave home or find mistresses? Because they get bored with monotony and indifference.
6. Personal space.
Men simply need it, especially introverts.
If he doesn’t want to go out with you, it doesn’t mean he wants to meet someone else. If he needs time to think about his problems on his own, give it to him. Clinginess scares men.
7. Ability to listen.
Most men are hard to get to talk to, but if he does and opens up, he expects the woman to listen to him. Listen and not judge, but try to understand (see point 1).
8. peace.
A man wants to come home and relax. He doesn’t want to hear scandals and hysterics; he doesn’t want to listen to negativity and complaints. He wants his family to be a quiet haven for him.
9. Sense of humor.
Where would we be without it? Without it, you won’t survive hard times and enjoy the good moments to the fullest.
