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Relationship Advice: 7 thoughts that only visit those who do not truly love

Relationship Advice: 7 thoughts that only visit those who do not truly love

7 thoughts that only those who don’t love truly have. If you have thoughts like these, it means you don’t love truly! ⁣⁣⁣.  ☝☝☝It is not customary to reason about such things as falling in love and feelings from a logical standpoint, since this is the realm of emotions.

But sometimes it is useful to put everything on the shelves, point by point, and go by the method of contradiction: “If I don’t have this, then I’m not in love.” That is, we will talk about those thoughts and kinds of symptoms that come to mind when we are not head over heels in love.
7 thoughts that only visit those who do not truly love:

1. Doubts about the correctness of the choice

When you are with the “right” person, you simply do not need to evaluate the person next to you; such thoughts do not even come to mind. But if you periodically catch yourself wondering whether you have rushed into making a choice, then these doubts are the first sign of a lack of real feelings.

2. Deal with yourself

You are mentally bargaining with yourself regarding your chosen one: I like this about him/her, so, well, I will tolerate these cockroaches. Those who are truly in love sincerely believe that all the best will multiply and the worst will fade and fade.
They do not dissect the character and habits of their loved ones under a microscope. This has nothing to do with a sober assessment of the situation (as it may seem to someone). It simply says that you do not love Him or Her.

3. What do you have to lose?

Time spent with friends, a bit of personal freedom, the opportunity to flirt with someone else, “the best years of your life”—when you think about these things and it’s 50/50 if not 60/40 or even 70/30, then you don’t love this person. What you value most is what you’re afraid of losing.

4. You expected more

And what you have is somehow “not so cool.” Because in your dreams you imagined everything differently.

It’s quite normal for the reality of a relationship to differ from expectations. But, as a rule, it differs for the better.

5. What will others think?

When you worry about “what others will say,” it’s not bad. You take into account the opinions of your family and friends. But when you don’t think about your other half at all and only want to please others, it’s a diagnosis. A diagnosis of your relationship.

6. One-sided game

You do not accept your chosen one for who he is. His personality and feelings hardly touch you.

What is more interesting to you is yourself. It is like a conversation in which you are interested in what you have to say, not what is said to you.

7. You want to change your partner

If you can do, as the old saying goes, “wash, shave, and straighten,” this is not your man. Don’t torture yourself, or him in particular.

If you find yourself thinking, “If only he would change his job/hairstyle/clothes and grow a little taller,” then that’s a sure sign you’re not in love. When we love, we accept; we don’t change.

Relationship Advice: 7 thoughts that only visit those who do not truly love
Relationship Advice: 7 thoughts that only visit those who do not truly love

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