1. He takes forever to reply to your messages.
Even if he initiates the correspondence, he takes a very long time to respond to your messages. Sometimes you even see that during this time he managed to write a post on Facebook or upload a photo to Instagram, but still hasn’t responded to you. It’s impossible that he didn’t see your message. He just decided not to respond to it.
2. He makes plans with you at the last minute.
You have to rush to shower and put on makeup if you want to meet him because he asks you out so late when you’re not planning on going anywhere. And if you try to arrange it with him in advance, he says he’s not sure he’ll be available. He tries to keep his options open. He doesn’t want to make plans with you in case something or someone more interesting comes along.
3. He is late.
If he says he’ll come at 7, it means he’ll only leave the house at 7 and come when he comes. He doesn’t respect you or your time. He does what he wants without considering your feelings.
4. He uses dating apps.
He’s not sure that you’re the one he wants to try something serious with. He may swear that he never uses those apps on his phone, but if that were true, he’d easily delete them. It only takes a few seconds.
5. He doesn’t make any effort to meet you.
If he meets you, well, cool. He smiles, flirts, and sees how quickly he can win you over.
But he won’t make a special effort to meet you. That’s why he always wants you to come to his house. He doesn’t even want to waste his time and money to come to you.
6. He only wants one thing from you.
He uses you to satisfy his physical needs, but not his emotional ones. He likes having sex with you, but he doesn’t want to tell you his secrets or anything personal. He’s only interested in your body.
7. He cancels plans.
He makes you look forward to seeing him, and then he disappoints you. He doesn’t tell you the time in advance. He waits until the last minute, until you’re ready to leave the house, to tell you he can’t make it today.
8. His friends don’t know you exist.
If no one in his life knows your name or has any idea who you are, then he doesn’t tell anyone about you. Then you’re not important to him.
9. He forgets about important things.
You’ve told him ten times when your birthday is, but until Facebook reminds him, he doesn’t remember. When you talk, he barely listens.
10. Only you make the effort.
You initiate almost all your conversations, all your meetings, and hugs. And he initiates only s*x.
11. He constantly finds excuses.
He doesn’t want to date because he’s supposedly still not over his previous relationship. He doesn’t have time for you because he’s too busy at work. He always has something to say in his defense.
