11 signs of a real man, with whom a woman will always be a mistress, a queen, a prostitute. TURN ON THE MAN! And then she will be the one you need!
1. Humor and dialogue are the starting points.
You can be as ugly as your Lada Priora; you cannot have an expensive watch on your hand, but you must have humor. You must be able to remind her that her eyes are the sea in which you are ready to drown and that you no longer need Nutella with the arrival of her lips in your life. Without your words, her world will be tasteless, like boiled rice. You will always lose to those who can make her laugh, no matter how much money you have.
2. “Working together? Solving problems” (film “Oligarch”).
If a girl calls you in any unclear situation, this point has been mastered. A woman does not necessarily have to hang around in unclear circles, know the right people, and know what to do in an accident. Not to mention the light bulb in the toilet. There is a man for that. He is the wall behind which a woman stands (and not vice versa).
3. I am the leader; you follow.
Strong women tear the ribbon, but each of them would like to feel weak and not decide anything (there are simply not strong enough men). The responsibility for choice is always with the man. This does not mean that the girl is afraid to say a word; it means that she can relax because she is not alone.
4. Snot for snotty kids.
You may have problems. Everyone has them, but they are not for her ears. Solve them and fight, but you are not allowed to whine on her shoulder. She can cry, be afraid, and be tired. In very close relationships, sharing is possible, but here a wise girl often sees everything herself, understands and tries not to screw with your brain, pressing her tender cheek to your powerful chest. Leave the whining to your children (for the Kinder surprise)
5. Her orgasm is on your conscience.
Learn to feel and listen to her body. Earning and saving is great, but her orgasm is your seal on the document. Without it, the document is invalid.
6. Etiquette is not a bonus but a necessity.
Of course, you want the word “man” to mean more than a dick between your legs. Don’t forget who holds the door, carries the heavy stuff, gets into the elevator first, puts her coat on, and stands up when she gets in.
You can screw up many moral principles and traditions, blaming them on social progress, but some things make you a noble sort of male called a “real man.”. Etiquette is one of them. It’s better to be a sexist than a pig. (I’m not sure you know the canons of etiquette—you don’t only use Google to search for porn.)
7. Flowers are not for a holiday.
They are the holidays. No need to turn it into a routine, but no need to wait for March 8th. Give her flowers, not for the occasion but for the fact that she exists.
Flower Mini Tutorial:
Your bouquet does not have to cost 10 thousand rubles and be made of roses. Classic roses are a cliche that makes you limited in her eyes. There are field daisies, simple ones, tulips, sunflowers, peonies, and hundreds of other species whose names I cannot pronounce, but I encourage you to choose. Do not be afraid of color and flowers (if you are completely colorblind, take sunflowers). They are much better than roses.
8. You know no fear.
She doesn’t know your fear, and in this case, she doesn’t know fear as long as you’re around. That’s worth more than a Bentley.
9. You are stronger.
As long as this is the case, she is yours. You can be gentle; you can give in and spoil, but you must always remain with your faith, principles, preferences, and interests. You are hers; your heart may belong to her, but you are not a slave.
Give her your freedom and this woman is no longer yours (even if she is nearby.) A terrible rule, a mistake that almost every romantic dick stumbles upon in his first relationship.
10. Do the work. Work.
A good person is not a profession. Even if you are 18 and a nobody, a woman wants to see the perspective, your desire to be somebody, and actions that lead to the goal.
11. No money for Pushkin; don’t bring it.
Take her to a place where you can pay for both of them. No one is asking you to shift her finances onto yourself on the first day of meeting her, but living at a woman’s expense is a lot of the unfinished.
Being in love will smooth out a lot, but you will still have to do something, if not for yourself, then at least for her, because true love is when you are ready to sacrifice your egoism. P.S. Men, always follow your plan. Women, follow your men.