Lies, unreliability, or flirting: Many things hurt in a relationship but are forgivable. However, some situations are not. We’ll tell you what you shouldn’t tolerate and when you should end it immediately.
Your partner is not interested in you and he keeps embarrassing you? Has he ever been physically violent towards you? Certain things should never, ever happen in a relationship. If he does these things, you should break up with him immediately.
Physical violence
Get out of here! If your partner becomes violent, you should immediately get away and throw him in the towel. No woman should have to put up with her partner treating her in such a way of humiliation and hurt. And no: Even if he only slipped his hand once and he promises that it won’t happen again, you should leave him.
Psychological violence
Emotional abuse can be just as painful as physical abuse. If he terrorizes you psychologically and makes you feel like you’re worthless, you should break up with him immediately. If someone doesn’t appreciate what a great person you are, they don’t deserve you.
Emotional infidelity
Infidelity is always a torment for the betrayed partner. But even worse than purely sexual infidelity is emotional infidelity. Knowing that your partner has fallen in love with another person, even if they have not yet had physical contact with that person, is a horror scenario.
Power games
Another reason to break up immediately is silly and hurtful power games. If he repeatedly exposes you and humiliates you as soon as you don’t do what he wants, you should pack your things quickly. In a relationship, you should always meet on equal terms and have equal rights. If he puts himself above you and has a say in your relationship, this will only lead to hurt and heartache.
Threats
If your partner threatens to hit you, leave you, or do something else bad to you if you don’t do what he says, the most important thing to do is get out of there quickly.
Disinterest
Just as bad is a partner who is uninterested in you. He is not interested in your wishes, ideas, and plans; he does not support you; you cannot rely on him, and your worries are of no interest to him. Get out of here!
Even if he says these 12 sentences, you should consider breaking up:
